Melanie Griffith at The 30th Anniversary Carousel Of Hope Ball in CA. Many women love tattoos as do many men, but women should be extremely careful on where they put them. Sure, you can show your hubby you adore him, but do it in a more discreet place, in the case it doesn’t work out between the two of you, you will have no regrets. In addition, it doesn’t look classy when wearing a gown. Even if you think you will never end up going to a ball or fancy event, think again, it can be a wedding, graduation or at a company’s party and it just doesn’t look right. Try the lower back, and we mean waaaayyyy, low.